Sunday, April 5, 2015

The Day I Said Yes

I've been reminiscing on the day I got engaged, and I realized I don't think I've ever written down the story! I figured this would be the perfect first official blog post to write about!

June 22, 2014:

The thought of getting married honestly always scared me. I knew eventually it would happen, but never in a million years would I ever thought I'd be engaged at age 18! It was a Sunday, one that I thought would be like any other Sunday. I decided I really wanted to make dinner for my boyfriend, Eric. I made country fried chicken, mashed potatoes with homemade gravy, and warmed up some green beans. I was so proud of myself because I usually suck at cooking, and hate it too. I thought it was delicious, but Eric didn't eat much and kind of just played with it for most of the time so I figured maybe it wasn't as great as I thought it was. After we ate dinner he asked if I wanted to go for a walk. We started walking up towards our college campus and he pulled out a piece of paper with 100 hand written reasons why he loved me. This is when I started to realize this wasn't the normal Sunday walk. Be prepared for a really long list! Or just scroll past it and keep on reading. :)

100 Reasons Why I Love You

  1. Your Smile
  2. Your Laugh
  3. Your Ability To Forgive
  4. Your Hugs
  5. Your Kisses
  6. Your Beautiful Blue Eyes
  7. Your Testimony of the Gospel
  8. Your Selfless Service
  9. Your Faith
  10. Your Diligence
  11. Your Love
  12. Your Intelligence
  13. Your Example
  14. Your Obedience
  15. Your Sacrifice
  16. Your Endurance
  17. Because You're a Cuddle Bug
  18. You like to fish
  19. Your Patience
  20. Your Love for Kids
  21. Your Determination 
  22. (He skipped 22, haha I never noticed)
  23. Your willingness to put up with me
  24. Your Work Ethic
  25. Your Kindness
  26. Your ability to put up with people (This one isn't true haha)
  27. That you like to play solitaire
  28. You will go on a hike even when you're sore
  29. That you listen
  30. Your ability to comfort 
  31. That you remember things
  32. You don't mind getting dirty 
  33. Your Honesty 
  34. Your Boldness
  35. The good influence you are on others
  36. You want to get married in the temple
  37. You're Humble 
  38. Your desire to have the spirit
  39. Your love for Heavenly Father
  40. Your testimony in the Atonement
  41. You honor your Father and Mother
  42. Your love for families
  43. You're not afraid to start something new
  44. The way you hold my hand
  45. The hope that you give me
  46. The fact that you're ticklish 
  47. You search the scriptures
  48. You Pray
  49. Your love of Double Stuffed Oreos
  50. You don't mind mosquito bites
  51. Your driving skills 
  52. Your soccer skills
  53. Your Happiness 
  54. You like riding a dirt bike with me
  55. The way you love your siblings 
  56. Your Communication Skills
  57. Your Nose
  58. You don't mind walking around barefoot
  59. Your ability to learn
  60. Your Commitment
  61. The way your hair blows in the wind
  62. The way you sing 
  63. Your Jokes
  64. You don't mind my toe thumbs ;)
  65. You let me clip your toes nails
  66. Your ability to pick out what kind of  deodorant I wear
  67. Your Shooting Skills
  68. You like playing tennis with me
  69. The gifts you give me
  70.  Your handwriting 
  71. The notes that you write me
  72. You're Virtuous
  73. When you steal my hat
  74. You be yourself
  75. Your Knowledge 
  76. Your Amazing Personality 
  77. Your Ears
  78. Your Lips
  79. Your Freckles 
  80. Your willingness to make me food
  81. You choose the right
  82. You have a current temple recommend 
  83. Your desire to follow the spirit 
  84. You let me kiss your forehead (Who wouldn't)
  85. You're so apologetic
  86. You don't judge me for how I act
  87. You're a good example to my sisters (They're more of an example to me)
  88. Your Spiritual Strength
  89. Your attitude about life
  90. The jokes you make 
  91. You're Competitive
  92. The way you wrinkle your nose
  93. Your Classy Outfits
  94. You're focused on your goals
  95. Your Meekness
  96. The good feelings I get when I'm with you
  97. When you sleep in - "That's my kind of woman!" 
  98. You don't mind wearing camouflage 
  99. The way you cry
  100. Your desire to be with me forever 

Sorry really long list! Haha but it's cute, right? Where was I? Oh yeah! So after he had me pretty much to tears after reading that, we got to the gardens on campus where we walked around for a while. We eventually made our way to this gazebo where we sat down and continued to talk some more (at this point I figured if he was going to propose he would've done it already). We were getting ready to leave and as we stood up, he went down on one knee. "Jamie Lynn Breitweiser, will you marry me." I swear I had been waiting my whole life for the day that I would hear those words come out of someones mouth, but when they did I couldn't believe it. Everything seemed to slow down and my head was spinning. I'm pretty sure I was saying, "NO, NO!" in unbelief as I was nodding my head yes super fast! The word "YES!" eventually came to me once I realized this wasn't a dream. I don't think my heart has pumped blood so fast in my life. But even though I couldn't believe that this was really happening, I have never been so sure of anything in my whole life. I was destine to marry Eric Lyle VanEvery, and the rest is history. :)







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